Logical
Tu Quoque
What it is
Deflecting criticism by pointing out that the critic has done the same thing, without actually addressing whether the criticism is valid.
How it works
Real-world examples
- •A politician accused of corruption responding with "My opponent did the same thing" without addressing the charges.
- •A company accused of pollution pointing to competitors who also pollute rather than addressing their own practices.
- •A person confronted about lying responding "You've lied too" rather than addressing the specific lie.
Ethical guidelines
- ●Hypocrisy in the accuser does not invalidate a legitimate criticism.
- ●Addressing the substance of criticism is more productive than deflecting to the critic's behavior.
- ●Using tu quoque habitually prevents any accountability from taking hold.
How to defend against it
- ►When someone responds with "you too," redirect: "We can discuss that separately, but right now the question is..."
- ►Recognize that the critic's behavior and the validity of the criticism are separate questions.
- ►Don't let the conversation shift away from the original substantive issue.