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Sea Lioning

What it is

A bad-faith harassment technique disguised as polite, persistent requests for evidence, explanation, or debate that exhaust the target.

How it works

The sea lion maintains a veneer of civility while making endless demands for sources, clarification, and engagement. Each response generates more demands. The target cannot disengage without appearing to have lost the argument, but continuing serves only the sea lion's goal of consuming the target's time and energy. Onlookers see "polite" requests and may side with the harasser.

Real-world examples

  • •Replying to every social media post with "Can you provide a source for that?" regardless of how well-established the claim is.
  • •"I'm just trying to have a civil conversation" while demanding hours of unpaid educational labor.
  • •Concern-trolling academics by endlessly questioning their methodology without engaging with findings.

Ethical guidelines

  • ●Good-faith inquiry is finite and responds to answers. Sea lioning is infinite and ignores them.
  • ●The right to ask questions does not entitle you to unlimited access to someone's time and energy.
  • ●Weaponizing civility norms to harass is still harassment.

How to defend against it

  • ►Set a limit: provide one thoughtful response with sources, then disengage if the pattern continues.
  • ►Recognize the pattern: if answering questions generates only more questions, never satisfaction, it's sea lioning.
  • ►You are not obligated to educate every person who demands your time — block freely.

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